Work from home

It was a little too quiet but exhausting week. You must be wondering why the opposite? Well, my parents went on a holiday trip to China, and I was stuck with my youngest 5-year-old boy. My husband and oldest son were busy with their work and that only left me alone with my youngest who can be a little too clingy as there was no one else at home.  As expected, we could hear my parents' voices the moment they opened their car doors as they reached home. Sounds and feels like Chinese New Year, with my boy all excited and thrilled to finally see his favourite grandparents.  While busily unpacking and sharing their animated holiday experiences, 2 of their astonishing encounters really left me in awe. It was related to my New Year Resolution that I had posted on 03 November 2023. I had just planned to have a financial reserve for my boys in case of uncertainties. While listening to my parents' fascinating journey, it suddenly awakened me that I should speed up my plans. Their first ...

 12.11.2023 ( Sunday ) ( Deepavali Day) A real-life event which caught my family by surprise and for me personally, pondering mode... who is the victim? My father-in-law went to his usual 'makan' place, a Chinese eatery with many food stalls in a corner shop. As sure as the Earth rotates around the Sun, he will be alone sipping his hot cuppa and enjoying his lunch at his favorite table while watching the busy lives of people around him. On the other hand, I had just finished sharing a Zoom session with my students' mum. We had a great bonding time by sharing ideas on empowering her children in their studies by using a proven effective Online Learning Programme and some of my parenting tips from my experience. I was on cloud nine as we managed to work out a solution to work around her busy schedule. For studying tips:  https://tryvschool.vktrend.com/krysttallim Little did I expect my phone to ring...Well, usually I get calls from property agents, unknown callers...nobody sig...

Have you prepared your New Year Resolution for Year 2024? It's only 2 months away. This has got me into wearing my thinking cap... What is my 2024 Resolution? Truly...what do I want in life? Look slimmer? buying the brand X bag?...nah, these were in my mind before the pandemic. Looking at my 2 boys (age 21 & 5 years old), I'm starting to worry...for them. What does their future hold? I see the struggle of my eldest who is in a rat race (a hairstylist) earning around 3k a month. Let's break it down:  Socso + KWSP 700 petrol 600 phone bill 200 food 600 entertainment 400 savings 500 If he were to maintain his savings of RM 500 monthly, annually, he has only RM 6000 in his bank. Well, not to mention, holiday & birthday gifts, doctor's bills, insurance ... and the list goes on... What is going to happen to him if another lockdown is being implemented? If his job is being replaced by AI? How many months can he survive? Gosh, a mother has so many things running in her ...

Balancing the responsibilities of work and family can be challenging and can lead to various dilemmas and conflicts. Here are some of the common dilemmas faced by working moms: Time management: One of the biggest challenges for working moms is managing their time effectively. They often have to juggle multiple responsibilities, such as their job, household chores, and taking care of their children. This can lead to a constant feeling of being overwhelmed and struggling to find a balance between work and family time. Guilt : Many working moms experience guilt due to the perceived notion of not spending enough time with their children. They may worry about missing important milestones or not being able to provide as much attention and care as they desire. This guilt can create a constant internal conflict and emotional stress. Childcare : Finding suitable and reliable childcare options can be a significant concern for working moms. They may struggle with the decision of whether to place...

Studying can often be a daunting and challenging task for students, but with the right approach and some effective strategies, it can become much easier and more manageable. Here are some ways to help students study effectively: 1. Create a study schedule:  Developing a study schedule can help students organize their time and allocate specific slots for each subject or topic. This ensures that all subjects receive equal attention and prevents last-minute cramming. 2. Find a suitable study environment:  A quiet and well-lit area without distractions is crucial for effective studying. Encourage students to find a dedicated study space where they can concentrate without interruptions. 3. Take regular breaks:  Studying for long hours without breaks can be counterproductive. Students should take short breaks every 45-60 minutes to relax, refresh their minds, and prevent burnout. Activities like stretching, going for a short walk, or having a healthy snack can help ...

  As we are cautiously dipping our toes back into society, I noticed that Covid-19 has left a big and unsightly scar on our children's education. Online learning was immediately enforced during this critical period and study schedules were altered which caused confusion-not only among educators, parents as well as our vulnerable children. This sudden dramatic change has greatly affected children not only socially but mentally as well. Educators were required to teach online. To be fair, were they equipped with the required tools, materials and training? Are there even internet connection in rural areas? As for parents, do they have the gadgets at home that supports the online classes? What happens to big families with many children? How to purchase more gadgets during this uncertainty time? Parents were required to juggle between their work at home and guide their children while attending online classes. During this critical learning period, many children started to show symptoms o...

 Hi, I'm Krysttal, a typical full time home-maker with a 21 years old and 5 years old boy. Before the Pandemic, I can be considered a workaholic, looking for a sense of achievement. I used to run a prominent foodcourt in Johor Bahru for more than 20 years at night. Lady Luck was smiling at me, my business is expanding and running smoothly, however, I feel a sense of hollowness. Hence, I started venturing in tutoring English during weekends and assisting in a Special Needs Center during the weekdays. Although fully occupied day and night, I was really enjoying my commitments, especially when I see the progress in my students...these are achievements that can't be bought...  When the Pandemic hits, tragically, my business and my teaching came to an abrupt halt. To me, my whole world stopped spinning. I've lost everything that I have built for the past 20 years. Compared to many people, I'm still considered lucky as I have a very close-knitted family who has been very supp...